udah sebulan bermain main dengan PTC (Paid To Click), awalnya cuma iseng iseng ngikutin temen eh jadinya ko malah ketagihan sewaktu ga ada kerjaan.
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Penerangan di rumah kemarin padam, dengan di iringi hujan yg mulai turun dengan derasnya, tangisan anakku mulai membuat bingung seisi rumah. Nyari baterai/ lilin/ korek ga langsung ketemu, anakku malah menjerit-jerit karena takutnya akan kegelapan atau dia mungkin tahu kalau Nyai Strumini sedang menyiapkan peralatan santetnya. Setelah tangis anakku selesai karena cahaya lampu emergency dan lilin yang sudah menyala, Maka lima menit kemudian saya mengontak pegawai Nyai Strumini. Saya tanya kenapa padam, sampai kapan, dan seterusnya. Apa pun jawabannya, saya senang dan berterima kasih karena telepon saya di angkat dan petugas mengawali dengan kata yang ramah.

Satu jam kemudian Ketika menyala, ada alat yang ngadat. Beberapa elektronik tak dapat berfungsi dengan baik bahkan ada yang mati. Mungkin santet yang dikirimkan Nyai Strumini melebihi kapasitas (Overload) jadi si korban bukanya sakit dulu tapi langsung Qoid. Mungkin saja dugaan saya salah karena urusan santet saya ga tahu Babar Blas.

Korban pertama dari santet yang dikirimkan Nyai Strumini adalah lampu kamar dan lampu teras langsung tewas, Yang sial, bersamaan dengan kasus itu adalah monitor juga mampus dan tercium barang dari bahan plastic kebakar.

Barusan saya telp ke pegawai Nyai Strumini dan menanyakan apa ada biaya pergantian/ biaya perbaikan untuk elektronik saya yang tewas, jawabnya sangat simple dan mudah. Listrik mati yang kemaren karena Santet Nyasar, jadi ga ada pergantian karena diluar perhitungan mereka.

Bagaimana kalau mereka malah bertanya “apa yang terjadi ya pak kalau dikirimi SANTET lagi?” mungkin langsung aku maki-maki tuh operator, atau setidaknya akan saya banting gagang telpon yang saya pegang.

Dari beberapa kasus diatas sudah jelas kalau Nyai Strumini juga bisa membuat orang stress, darah tinggi. Dan yang lebih parah lagi harus siap MATI GASIK. Kenapa saya bilang begitu? Karena setiap hari kita dekat dengan Nyai Strumini dan berkutat dengan masalah SANTET.

Baby acne is a very common condition with newborns. This can begin when a baby is as little as a few weeks old. Baby acne appears more in baby boys than in baby girls. And acne in teenage boys is more severe than with teenage girls. And later in adulthood, women are affected more by acne than men. This has alot to do with the hormonal changes we all go through within our bodies. But dont get alarmed. Your babys acne will usually clear up within several weeks.

Baby acne is caused by hormones that are passed on to the baby through the placenta before birth. Then after the delivery of your baby, these hormones are passed through to the babys skin. Now since the acne does look like red pimples, it is actually small whiteheads that are surrounded by redness and inflamed skin. This acne presents itself on a babys cheeks, chin, the back and the forehead. What causes the babys acne is when the follicles are block and sebum which is a oil gland gets block and then bacteria begins to grow. What you also need to be aware of, if your baby gets irritable or agitated, the acne may become a little more severe.

When taking care of your baby, be careful and:

Dont use petroleum oil or mineral oil. This can make the situation worse.
Not good for you the mother, to be taking any medications while you are nursing.
If your baby is taken any medicines, you need to check for any allergic reactions.
Always use a mild soap or plain water when you bathe your baby.
Cleanse the face once a day with water. And dont use any ointments or creams.
No acne medications used by you or for your baby.
You can wash your little one every 2-3 days with very mild soap or just plain water. Especially keep the neck area very clean.
Do not use any harsh detergents when washing clothes.
Beware of any formulas containing soy milk. Soy milk has been shown to have high level hormone materials which are not good for a baby to drink when a baby is experiencing any form of acne. It can agitate the acne even more.
And if you are heading into the winters cold months, use light moisturizers and/or un-scented lotions for you and your baby.

Baby acne is a temporary condition and your baby will outgrow this in a few months. Now if your babys acne does not clear up after 6 months, then you should check with your pediatrician for advice and treatment.

Another thing to beware of. If your baby has a rash anywhere else on their body and its rashly, red or scaly, then your baby may have another condition called cradle cap or eczema. If you think that your baby has something more than baby acne, consult with your pediatrician. Dont get alarmed. Help is always available.

There are two other forms of baby acne that you should know about.

1. ...your baby will be happier, calmer, and more alert.
2. ...your baby will have help regulating his breathing and temperature.
3. ...your baby will have help developing her sense of balance.
4. ...you will be more "in tune" with your baby, more aware of his moods and condition.
5. ...your baby will be safe with you when you are out. You don't have to constantly unwrap or "check on" her in some device.
6. ...you will be able to smell your baby all the time---yum!
7. ...your baby will be within easy kissing and cuddling distance.
8. ...you will be able to take care of your other children and yourself while your baby is feeling secure.
9. ...you won't feel "trapped" by your baby, because you'll be able to go places and do things without guilt, since baby is attached to you!
10. ...you will be able to go places that are difficult with strollers, such as up stairs or escalators, on gravel paths, grass, or beaches (or wading in a pool or lake), through crowded malls or street festivals.
11. ...you will be able to go places where strollers aren't allowed or don't fit, like petting areas of a zoo, or into a church or movie theater, without having to find a "parking spot" for your stroller and worrying about its being stolen.
12. ...you can catch a close connection at the airport (this has come up for us a couple of times), because you don't have to worry about fumbling with storage, boarding, and folding/unfolding of your stroller.

Wait! There are a few more.

13. ...you can hold the hands of your other children when crossing a busy street.
14. ...you can chase (and catch!) the other children if they run off at a zoo or park.
15. ...your baby can be social or private, depending on his mood.
16. ...your baby will probably sleep better tied onto you than away in a bed (at least when she's young), and when she wakes up she usually won't cry if you're right there! Besides, you won't have to interrupt what you're doing to go get her or check on her.
17. ...you'll have less worry about SIDS, because you're aware of your baby's breathing.
18. ...all that time you'll need to hold your baby, he will feel so much lighter in a good cloth carrier.
19. ...your baby will feel secure in the womb-like environment.
20. ...you and your baby will easily develop the special bond that comes from sharing a life.

Let us know if you have any questions about what it's like to "wear" a baby.

Why does my baby spit up so much?

He's probably just getting the hang of feeding. And he's not alone: About 40 percent of young babies spit up regularly. The peak age for spitting up is 4 months.

When your baby takes in air along with his breast milk or formula, the air gets trapped in with the liquid. The air has to come up, and when it does, so does some of the liquid.

Babies take in a lot of nourishment in relation to their size, and some of them really like to eat, so sometimes they become overfilled and, well, overflow.

A newborn's digestive system isn't fully developed, either. The muscles at the bottom of your baby's esophagus, which control whether food is coming or going, may still be getting up to speed. It's no wonder your baby creates so much laundry.

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Why do babies cry?

All babies cry sometimes. They have to. Even entirely healthy newborns will cry for somewhere between one and three hours each day. Unable to do anything for themselves, babies rely on someone else to provide them with the food, warmth, and comfort that they need. Crying is a baby's way of communicating one of those needs. As a new parent, it can sometimes be difficult to work out what your baby is telling you - is she hungry, cold, thirsty, bored, looking for a cuddle? In the early days, when you have not yet learned to work out what your baby needs, this crying can be upsetting. However, you will gradually begin to recognise your baby's different crying patterns and, as you get to know her better, will be able to anticipate her needs.

As babies grow, they gradually learn other ways of communicating with us, too. They get better at eye contact, making noises, and even smiling, all of which reduce the need for crying. The most common reasons babies cry are listed below. If you have a baby who is difficult to soothe, try working your way down the list. That way, you can reassure yourself that you have tried to meet her needs as well as you possibly can.

• I need food
Hunger is the most common reason a new baby will cry. The younger your baby is, the more likely it is that she is crying because she is hungry. The exception to this is in the first day or two after birth, when some babies feed very little. If you are breastfeeding, you may well be aware of this, as the very concentrated early milk, colostrum, is produced in small amounts and you notice when the milk "comes in" around the third day. A baby's small stomach cannot hold very much, so if your baby cries, try offering her some milk, as it may well be that she is hungry. She might not stop crying immediately, but let her keep feeding if she wants to, and she will gradually be soothed as her stomach fills up. If your baby has been fed and is still crying, however, perhaps she is expressing the next need.

• I need to be comfortable
Babies will very sensibly protest if their clothes are too tight or if a soiled nappy is bothering them. Some babies don't seem to mind if their nappies are full - it just feels warm and comfortable to them - while others will call out to be changed immediately, especially if some tender skin is being irritated. Checking your baby's nappy and changing it may meet her needs, so this is always worth trying. It also gives you an opportunity to check that a nappy tab isn't too tight or that there isn't something else about her clothing making her uncomfortable.

• I need to be warm - and not too hot or too cold
Some newborns hate having their nappy changed or being bathed - they are not used to the feel of the air on their skin and much prefer to be bundled up and warm. If your baby is like this, you will soon learn how to perform a nappy change quickly so that you can calm her down again. Take care not to overdress your baby, though, so that she gets too hot. A good rule to follow is that she needs to wear one more layer of clothing than you do to be comfortable.

In the cot or Moses basket, try using a sheet and cellular blankets as bedding, rather than a duvet, so you can add and remove layers as necessary. You can check whether your baby is too hot or too cold by feeling her stomach: if she's too hot, remove a blanket, if she's cold, add one. Don't be guided by her hands or feet, as it is normal for them to feel slightly cold. Keep your baby's room at a temperature of around 18 degrees C / 64 degrees F, and put her down to sleep on her back with her feet at the end of the cot so that she can't wriggle too far down under the blankets and get too hot that way.

• I need to be held
Some babies need a great deal of cuddling and reassurance. An older child may be soothed by seeing you in the room or hearing your voice, but new babies often need close physical contact for comfort. If you've fed your baby and changed her nappy, you may find that she now simply wants to be held. Some parents worry that they will "spoil" their baby if they hold her too much, but during the first few months of life that's impossible. While some babies don't seem to need that much physical contact, others want to be held almost all the time. If your baby needs a lot of holding, you might like to try a baby sling, which allows you to keep your baby close while leaving your hands free for other tasks; this may be a solution that keeps you both happy.

• I need a rest
It is easy to assume that babies will fall asleep whenever they need to, wherever they are, simply because so many of them do. However, if your baby has been receiving a lot of attention - perhaps you've had a busy day with hordes of visitors round - she may become overstimulated and then find it hard to "switch off" and settle. Newborns can find it difficult to cope with too much stimulation at once - the lights, the noise, being passed from one adoring relative to the next - and can become overwhelmed by it all. Many parents have found that their baby cries more than usual when relatives come to stay, or sometimes just towards the end of each day. If there seems to be no specific reason for your baby's crying, she may just be saying, "I've had enough". If you can take her somewhere calm and quiet, gradually withdrawing the stimulation, she may express her feelings by crying for a while and then eventually settling to sleep.

• I need something to make me feel better
If you've fed your baby and checked that she's comfortable, but she's still continuing to cry, you may wonder if she is ill or in pain. First-time parents often find it difficult to tell whether their baby is crying purely because she's an unhappy baby by nature (and some are, as it takes them a long time to adjust to being in the world) or whether there's something genuinely wrong. A baby who is ill often cries in a different tone to her usual cry - it may be more urgent or high-pitched. Equally, for a baby who normally cries frequently, an unusual quietness may be a sign that she's not well. The most important thing to remember is that nobody knows your baby as well as you do. If you feel that there may be something wrong, give your GP, midwife, or health visitor a call. Health professionals will always take your concerns seriously, and it may be reassuring for you to know that there isn't a physical cause for your baby's crying. Always call your doctor if your baby has difficulty breathing through the crying, or if the crying is accompanied by vomiting, diarrhoea, or constipation. See our article on when to call the doctor for more guidance.

• I need something ... but I don't know what
Sometimes you might not be able to figure out what's wrong when your baby cries. Many newborns go through patches of fretfulness and are not easily comforted. The unhappiness can range from a few minutes of hard-to-console crying to several hours at a stretch, an almost constant state of crying that is sometimes called colic. Colic is defined as inconsolable crying for at least three hours a day, for at least three days a week. Many parents find it very difficult to cope with a baby who has colic, and it can put a strain on the whole family. There is no magic cure for colic, but it rarely lasts for more than three months. If you can hold on to the fact that your baby will grow out of it, that may help. See our article on coping with colic for more strategies on how to deal with this distressing condition.

My baby's crying - what can I do?

There are things you can try to comfort a crying baby. Not all of them will work for all babies, so you need to gradually get to know your own baby and her particular personality to find out what works for her and for you.

• Wrap her up and hold her tight
Newborns show a definite preference for feeling snug and secure, just as they were in the womb, so you might like to try swaddling your baby in a blanket to see if she likes that. Many parents also find that holding their baby close, especially when she can hear their heartbeat, or putting her in a baby sling is soothing. Other babies find swaddling too restrictive and respond better to other forms of reassurance such as being rocked or sung to.

• Find a constant rhythm
In the womb, your baby could hear the regular beat of your heart: that's one of the reasons many babies continue to like being held close. However, other regular, repetitive noises can also have a calming effect. You could try playing gentle music or singing a lullaby. Many parents find that if their baby can hear the steady rhythm of a washing machine or the "white noise" of a vacuum cleaner or hairdryer, that will soon lull her off to sleep. (Never put your baby on top of a washing machine or clothes dryer - always put her on the floor next to it.)

• Rock-a-bye baby
Most babies love to be gently rocked, and you may find that your baby is calmed by this, too, whether you walk around rocking her or sit with her in a rocking chair. Special baby swings can soothe some babies, while others are comforted by being in rather faster motion and drop off almost as soon as they're driven somewhere in a car.

• Try a massage
Giving your baby a massage or gently rubbing her back or tummy can help soothe her. If she seems to have pains with wind, try feeding her in a more upright position and winding her after a feed by holding her against your shoulder. Babies who have colic may sometimes be soothed by having their tummies rubbed, and it may make you feel better to know that at least you are trying to do something to help your baby's distress.

• Let her suck on something
In some newborns, the need to suck is very strong and sucking a dummy or (clean) finger or thumb can bring great comfort. "Comfort sucking" can steady a baby's heart rate, relax her stomach, and help her settle.

• Don't demand too much of yourself
A baby who cries almost constantly will do herself no lasting harm, but may cause a great deal of stress and worry for her parents. If your baby seems pretty unhappy to be here and resists every effort that you make to cheer her up or calm her down, it can be hard not to feel rejected as well as frustrated. Parents sometimes blame themselves, feeling that it is their incompetence as parents that is causing the crying, but this is rarely the case. If you know that your baby's needs have been met, that there is nothing physically wrong causing your baby to cry, and if you've tried everything you can think of to calm her but nothing's worked, it's time to take care of yourself so that you don't become overwhelmed. Here are a few suggestions:

• Take deep breaths.

• Put your baby down somewhere and let her cry for a while out of your hearing.

• If it helps, put on some quiet music and let yourself relax for ten minutes.

• Call a friend or relative and get some support. Give yourself a break and let someone else take over for a while.

• Talk to your health visitor about local support groups or mother-and-baby groups where you can share your feelings and discuss ways of coping with the crying with other new parents.

• Remind yourself that nothing is wrong with your baby and that crying in itself won't hurt her. Sometimes simply accepting that you have a baby who cries a great deal can help, in that you don't wear yourself out looking for reasons for the crying, blaming yourself for it, or offering endless new remedies which don't work.

• Remind yourself that this is a phase and it will pass.

Being the parent of a newborn is hard work. Being the parent of a newborn who cries a great deal is even harder work. Get help and support when you need it, rather than letting things build up. And take comfort from the fact that each day, as your baby grows, she learns new ways of being able to communicate her needs to you. Gradually, as she does so, the crying will stop.

Comforting your crying baby

Why do babies cry?

All babies cry quite a lot and for a variety of reasons. The common reasons why a baby cries vary depending upon the age of the baby. This factsheet will help you to identify the reasons why your baby may be crying and suggest some steps that you can take to help soothe your baby.

Newborn and young babies

Crying is the only means of communication for young babies. Therefore at first your baby will cry for all their needs. These include physical needs such as hunger, tiredness, a wet nappy, being too hot or too cold, or even discomfort from tight clothing. Your baby will also crying because of anxiety or an emotional need such as affection.

Fortunately, babies' cries usually vary with these different needs. Within the first few weeks of life you will become able to recognise your baby's different cries and respond more quickly to their needs. At this stage it is impossible to spoil a baby with attention so if (s)he cries you should pick up your baby for a cuddle and find out what it is (s)he wants. This also reassures your baby that you are there for him or her.

Whilst getting to know your baby's cries will help you narrow down the need, it will often be a matter of trial and error. The first things to try are offering your baby a feed and checking whether (s)he needs a nappy change. Next you might give your baby something to suck, rock or pat or simply talk to your baby. If none of these help then check to see if (s)he is too hot or too cold. Room temperature should be around 20-23oC(68-73oF) and baby's normal body temperature 37oC(98.6oF).

Colic

Crying due to colic is often more high pitched than usual crying. Your baby may also draw up their legs and become red in the face. This crying tends to occur at the same time every day, usually the late afternoon or evening and is not helped by any of the usual remedies. Colic can start as early as three weeks and continue until about twelve to 16 weeks. The cause of colic is unknown. You should try a range of methods to soothe your baby, for example:

• Rocking
• Walking
• Frequent feeding
• Rubbing or massage
• Music
• A change of room or environment
• A drive in the car

It is not advisable to use medicines to give your baby relief without first consulting your GP or health visitor.

Nappy rash

Nappy rash is a skin irritation that occurs on the skin of a baby in the nappy area. Various things can cause the irritation including:

• ammonia, which is found in urine and faeces
• alcohol, which is sometimes used in baby wipes
• a change in diet eg from breast milk to formula
• strong detergents/soap additives, which have been used to clean terry nappies

However, not all nappy conditions are nappy rash. Other conditions that can cause similar symptoms include heat rash, dermatitis (eczema) or thrush.

Symptoms of nappy rash vary from mild sore red spots to cracked or broken skin and even blisters. You may also be able to smell ammonia strongly on the nappy.

Treatment of nappy rash is usually simple, and the problem should clear up after a few days:

• change the nappy as soon as it is wet/dirty
• let your baby play without a nappy as much as possible, so their bottom is exposed to the air
• if you're using a barrier cream, stop using it, it could be causing the rash or preventing the rash from healing
• avoid using plastic pants
• keep your baby's bottom dry, but don't use talcum powder

If the rash lasts longer than three days, gets worse or shows signs of being infected, (inflammation, discharge or your baby develops a fever,) ask your health visitor or GP for advice.

Coping with a crying baby

A new baby that is frequently crying can be very stressful for the parents and carers. It is helpful to try not to become tense, as your baby will sense this and it may make things worse. If possible find someone who can take turns with you soothing the baby. Make sure that you rest when you get the chance. Put on some soothing music that you enjoy. Try to keep things in perspective and not to worry about things that are not getting done such as the laundry or the washing up. Remember that most colic disappears before your baby is three months old and nappy rash is usually easily treated, so relief is in sight.

If you are finding it difficult to cope then talk to your GP or health visitor about getting local support and advice.

Older babies

From the age of about three months, babies become more aware of their surroundings and much more communicative. By now you are likely to be able to recognise your baby's distinctive cries, for instance when (s)he is hungry, tired, or needs changing. However, now your baby will cry from boredom, anxiety, frustration and teething. Whilst identifying the cause of your baby's crying will again require a process of trial and error, the following may be of help:

Boredom - make sure that your baby has a selection of interesting toys within reach. Spend time with your baby just talking or playing or reading from a storybook. Singing and music can also be fun.

Anxiety - your baby may cry if (s)he fears separation from you or in the presence of strangers or if (s)he is in a strange place. Always be supportive and never make fun of your child's fears. Reassure your baby with soothing words in a gentle tone of voice and cuddle him. When you are separated from your baby reassure him or her that you will come back soon. Whenever possible, try to make frequent appearances to reassure your baby that you are nearby.

If you have to be away from him or her for longer periods (for example with a child carer when you return to work) then take time to make sure that your baby is used to the new environment and the new carer. If possible, try to prepare your baby for your being apart by starting with short periods at a time and gradually making them longer. Make sure that you and the carer are patient with your baby's anxiety and don't show any frustration or impatience. If (s)he has a comfort object, such as a toy or blanket, make sure that (s)he has it when you leave.

When you return give your baby extra cuddles and plenty of soothing talk.

Frustration - your baby will cry when they want to do things that they are not yet able to or when they do not get their own way.

Make your home as childproof as possible to allow your baby to explore in safety without you having to fuss around with moving things out of the way.

Try and have a favourite or new toy or game to hand to distract your baby when (s)he becomes frustrated. Offer help when (s)he needs it but don't completely take over - allow your baby to feel a sense of achievement. If your baby simply wants his or her own way it is important to decide for yourself whether the issue is an important one.

A good rule of thumb is only to assert your own will over those things that are really important and not simply because you prefer things a certain way. When you do decide to assert your will then don't change your mind or this will confuse your baby and make him or her less likely to do as you wish next time. Provided the baby is safe then tantrums are best ignored when possible.

Don't shout at your baby and don't punish him or her afterwards. Explain in a reasoned way why (s)he cannot do whatever it is they want to do. Although (s)he will not understand what you say at first, your baby will understand your tone of voice and will learn what you mean.

Teething - when the teeth are coming through the gums become swollen and red. Your baby may also tug on their ear or even develop cold symptoms whilst teething. Your baby may dribble a lot, be irritable, clingy and have trouble sleeping. Medical treatment is not usually necessary. Try giving him or her something to chew on such as a cold carrot or a chilled (not frozen) teething toy. You can also try rubbing your baby's gums with your finger or applying a small amount teething gel.

Illness or infection

Crying accompanying symptoms such as: fever, loss of appetite, vomiting, skin rash, light-phobia, is more likely to be the result of an infection. If your baby has these symptoms or if you think your baby is unwell contact your GP or health visitor as symptoms can progress quickly with small babies.

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WHAT YOUR BABY WILL NEED AT THE HOSPITAL

• Undershirt
• An outfit such as a stretch suit, nightgown, or sweater set
• A pair of socks or booties
• Receiving blanket, cap and heavier blanket or bunting, if the weather is cold
• Diapers and wipes (some hospitals provide an initial supply of these)
• Safety pins or velcro attaching strips, and rubber or nylon pants (if you are using cloth diapers)
• Infant car seat
• Diaper bag

SAFETY ITEMS FOR YOUR BABY

• Night lights or soft lighting
• Baby monitor
• Baby nail clippers/scissors manicure set

THINGS YOU'LL NEED TO TRANSPORT YOUR BABY

• Car seat - you will need to find out the specifications for a car seat that will fit in your car. All car seats are not made alike
• Stroller
• Backpacks and soft carriers
• Diaper bag - since this is something you will be carrying around for about three years, choose one that is comfortable and durable for you

ITEMS FOR YOUR BABY'S ROOM

• Crib and crib linens
• Play pen or portable crib
• Changing table
• Dresser
• Glider or rocking chair
• Clothes hamper

SUGGESTED ITEMS FOR YOUR HOME

• Diapers or cloth diapers
• Receiving Blankets
• Clothing
• Breast pump - if you plan to breastfeed.
• Bottles - be sure to get the correct size of nipples, such as preemie, or newborn
• Rectal or digital ear thermometer
• Bathtubs
• Washcloths and baby wipes
• Diaper rash ointment and/or petroleum jelly
• Hooded Towels
• Diaper disposal system - good to have, but not necessary
• Burp Cloths and waterproof lap pads
• Bulb syringe - for suctioning baby's nasal passages if necessary. Your baby's doctor will tell you if, when, and how to do this

THINGS YOU'LL NEED AS YOUR BABY GETS OLDER

• Outlet protectors
• Toys
• Books
• Walker
• High Chair
• Gates

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kenapa selalu menjadi alasan terhebat untuk melakukan suatu hal, entah itu perbuatan positif sampai yang negatif. dulu saya ga pernah percaya cinta bisa membuat orang begitu nekat dengan melakukan perbuatan konyol yang ga masuk akal, aku pikir itu cuma ada di sinetron yang terbiasa kita lihat sehari-hari. tapi sekarang, cerita itu malah menjadi nyata dalam kehidupanku. cinta pertama datang setelah sekian lama kucoba untuk menguburnya.

setelah cinta pertama bersemi kembali walaupun aku mencoba untuk tidak menanggapinya, kehidupan cintaku yang sekarang berada di tengah gurun dengan angin yang dahsyat. kucoba untuk bertahan dengan tidak mengikuti arah angin, saya yakin bisa menghadapinya kalau cuma angin yang menerpa kehidupan cinta kita. tapi sekarang terlalu sulit, tempat berpijak yang aku pakai untuk menahan angin juga ikut-ikutan menyerangku.

entah kapan, aku pernah mendengar kalau wanita yang didahulukan emosi daripada rasionalnya, sekarang aku paham betul dengan kata itu. kejadian yang sudah berlalu dan ga ada sangkut-pautnya dengan cinta kita mampu menggoyahkan pendirianmu. aku sudah jelaskan semuanya tanpa aku tambahi dan aku kurangi, aku jujur sejujur-jujurnya. tapi kamu ga mau tahu, kau anggap cinta pertamaku menjadi penghalang kebahagiaan kita. secara emosi kau anggap aku telah mendua.

sekarang kehidupan cinta kita ga seharmonis dulu, mestinya kamu percaya pada suami kamu, bukan mantan kekasih suami kamu. setiap hari selalu saja begitu, aku menjadi ujung pertengakaran kita, mulai dari hal yang sepele yang seharusnya dapat kita selesaikan dengan mudah malah menjadi pertengkaran yang dahsyat. dan kalau sudah begini aku jadi teringat masa indah cinta pertamaku, andaikan dulu aku......

apakah ini yang dinamakan godaan atau ujian kesabaran. selama ini aku selalu bersabar menghadapi permasalah ini, aku selalu mengalah demi kelanggengan cinta kita. aku minta kamu ga selalu menyalahkan aku, kalau tetap begini aku ga tahu bagaimana jalinan cinta kita. dari sisi cinta pertama selalu menuntut janji dan kamu selalu mengajak bertengkar dan menyalahkanku. aku ga akan kuat jika terus- terusan di serang dari dua sisi. jangan paksa aku menceraikanmu dengan alsan ini, kasihan dengan buah cinta kita, ningrum akan menjadi korban masalah ini. dia ga tahu apa-apa, mestinya dia bahagia. kalau ada yang menderita biarlah aku yang menanggungnya.

istriku, jangan paksa aku menceraikanmu

siapa yang mau kamu kasih bogem nak? ga boleh nakal ya. jadilah anak yang sholehah, buat papamu bangga dengan semua keahlianmu
bergaya kaya superman/superboy/supergirl. jadilah superchild.

setelah beberapa waktu bermain-main dengan program barcode, akhirnya bisa juga saya akali agar ga perlu membayar bejuta-juta. barcode sebenarnya cuma font saja, kita bisa mendonload dari internet dan tinggal memasukan ke dalam c:/windows/font maka program barcode sudah bisa kita gunakan di aplikasi apapun. saya mencobanya di program photoshop dan microsoft word tinggal ganti jenis font yang bisanya times and roman kita alihkan ke font barcode yang telah saya copykan ke windows tadi, semua berjalan dengan sempurna jadi ga perlu beli printer barcode juga label barcode.

tapi setelah ketemu dan berjalan sempurna, saya bingung mau ngasih harga berapa?? font barcode cuma download, tapi kalau saya kasih gratisan ntar jadi ngiri masalahnya tetangga bisa dapet proyek ID-CARD pasti dapat untung juga. tapimau jual berapa? saya g biasa jualan!! duh bingung neh, mau ngasih harga ntar kalo dia tahu cuma main copy paste font barcode juga g enak. tapi dia kan bisnis dan dapat duit? bingung akuwww...........

mengenang cinta pertama dimasa lau sungguh membuatku tak habis pikir.
dulu kita sering main bersama walau umur kita terpaut 3 tahun, masih kuingat kita mulai akrab saat aku masih kelas 1 sma dan kau kelas 1 smp. jarak sekolahan yang dekat menjadikan kita akrab karena berangkat dan pulang sekolah selalu seiring sejalan, kamu selalu manja padaku kalo ada pr yang ga bisa kamu kerjakan. selalu merengek dan bergelayut di lengan sambil menrik narik mengajak masuk kerumahmu untuk sebuah bantuan mengerjakannya.

selalu begitu selama 2,5 tahun, baru setelah pertengan kelas tiga kita mulai merajut cinta. ga tahu siapa yang mulai, tahu-tahu kita sudah pacaran. mungkin karena tetangga sekampung menganggap kita pacaran. setelah lulus baru kita mulai serius menempuh jalinan cinta, setiap hari aku selalu mengantar dan menjemputmu dari sebuah sma, selama kamu di sma banyak kenangan indah yang menyertai kita. ga pernah ada persoalan berarti yang menimpa cinta kita. tapi setelah kamu lulus sma aku harus pergi ke lain kota untuk bekerja, bukan masalah berarti karena kita saling mencintai, menghargai dan mempercayai. selama aku diluar kota kamu melanjutkan kuliah dan mengambil jurusan ekonomi "Management SDM", banyak ilmu yang bisa kamu raih disana. salah satunya motivasi, kamu selalu memotivasi diriku untuk selalu kuat menghadapi bahtera cinta kita.

setelah kamu lulus kuliah barulah terbersit keinginan untuk menuju pelaminan, aku langsung bilang orang tuaku dan mereka setuju. hari yang telah ditentukan tiba, orang tuaku datang kerumahmu untuk melamar dirimu. sungguh diluar dugaan, bapakmu dengan tegas menolak lamaran orang tuaku. betapa malunya mereka begitu juga dengan diriku, saat itu kamu cuma bisa menangis dan lari masuk kamar. pulang dengan tangan hampa dan malu, membuat orang tuaku dengan tegas melarangku berhubungan denganmu. mereka ga akan memberikan restunya untuk cinta kita. karena aku ingin berbakti kepadanya juga alasan yang bisa kumengerti maka aku anggap hubungan kita telah putus. malam itu juga aku langsung pergi ke kota tempatku bekerja, sebisa mungkin aku harus melupakanmu.

tapi setelah sekian tahun berlalu, kuakui aku g bisa melupakanmu, ga bisa membencimu, aku tetap mencintaimu seperti yang dulu walau bagiku harapan untuk memilikimu ga akan mungkin bisa. tapi stelah kejadian beberapa bulan yang lalu, kamu bangkitkan lagi cinta yang terpendam, kau buat hatiku berbunga lagi. tapi mengapa sekarang? setelah aku mempunyai anak dan istri?
harapanku untuk memiliki dirimu seutuhnya berkobar lagi, tapi aku ga bisa menuruti cinta ini. aku ga mau menyakiti hati istriku, cukup sudah dia menderita karena terormu.

cinta pertamaku, kita tahu kita masih saling mencintai. tapi mencintai bukan berarti harus memiliki. biarkan aku bahagia dengan kehidupanku sekarang, andai kamu tahu. aku juga tersiksa dengan kejadian ini.

aku akan mencintaimu selama hidupku, tapi aku ga bisa kalau harus menerjang batas.

kata orang, cinta pertama ga akan bisa lupa
aku setuju dengan kata itu, apalagi dalam mengarungi cinta pertama selama tujuh tahun.
berawal dari mudik beberapa bulan yang lalu, suatu pagi yang telah menjadi kebiasaanku berjalan jalan dengan mengajak anaku keliling kampung. tanpa sengaja aku bertemu dengan cinta pertamaku "ANI PUSPITANINGRUM", percakapanpun langsung terjadi

aku: hai dik, apa kabar. mau kemana neh?
ani: baik mas, biasa kalo pagi olahraga. oh ya, anak siapa mas ko masih kecil
aku: anaku dik, namanya ANNIDA SUNNI KUSUMANINGRUM. panggilannya Ningrum
ani: anakmu? kapan nikah? kenapa aku ga dikabari? (mata mulai berair)
aku: aku nikah sudah 1,5 tahun dik (aku terdiam g bs nglanjutin ngomong)
ani: selama ini aku selalu menunggumu mas, kenapa skr ketemu dah punya anak dan istri (isak tangis mulai terdengar)

deg, aku ga menyangka dia akan bilang begitu. perasaan bersalah mulai menyelimuti hatiku. jujur ku katakan, sampai sekarang aku masih mencintai dan menyayanginya. dulu kami memang sepakat mau nikah, tapi setelah orang tuaku datang melamar ternyata ga disetujui ama bapaknya. aku pikir setelah kejadian itu maka dia ga akan menungguku lagi, ternyata....

aku: dik, setelah penolakan itu aku pikir kamu dah ga menungguku lagi walau kita masih saling mencintai. sampai sekarangpun aku juga masih mencintai dan menyayangimu. bukti kalo aku ga melupakanmu ku kasih nama anaku yang mirip namamu!!
ani: ga urusan, nama anak g bisa dijadikan bukti. kecuali namanya persis namaku baru aku percaya!!
aku: dik, aku ngaku salah. aku minta maaf. semua sudah terjadi aku g mungkin meninggalkan anak dan istriku.
ani: aku ga nyuruh mas meninggalkan semua itu
aku: terus??
ani: dulu mas janji mau nikahi aku, sekarang mana janjimu?? aku ingin dalam waktu dekat kamu menikahiku

gubrak!!! tuntutan yang menyenangkan sekaligus membingungkan. dalam hati aku mau menikahinya, tapi mana mungkin ada ijin dari istriku? mau nekat menikahinya aku takut kualat ma anak istri karna ga ada ijin. beberapa hari kemudian ada sms masuk menanyakan keputusan kapan aku menikahinya???? duh jangankan kapan, bisa menikahinya aja belum tentu bisa.
aku balas saja kalo ga ada bisa menikahinya, bukan karena aku dah melupakanya tapi memang ga ada ijin dari istri.

lain hari ada sms yang masuk "mas, kenapa sekarang kamu berubah?? dulu kamu selalu tegar dan pantang menyerah tapi setelah menikah dan punya anak, kenapa kamu sekarang jadi pengecut? mestinya kita bisa bahagia dengan cinta ini. tapi kenapa cinta ini menjadikanmu PENGECUT?"

PENGECUT? benarkah gw pengecut?

anaku sekarang dah bisa tengkurap sendiri, bobotnya turun 1 ons mungkin karena banyak gerak jadi banyak lemak yang kebakar. cepatlah besar anaku, tinjulah congkaknya dunia. ko jadi nyanyi lagunya iwan fals??

rabu pagi 16 januari 2008 perut istriku mules, di periksakan ke bidan katanya biasa kalo mules karena perkiraan sebulan lagi mau lahir. ya udah aku bawa pulang lagi terus aku berangkat ke kantor, di kantor aku bisa konsentrasi ke pekerjaan rasanya bingung mau ngapain. bekerja juga ga bisa mikir. jam 15.00 ibu mertua telpon nyuruh pulang secepatnya, anaku mau lahir tapi nunggu papanya nungguin, ya udah langsung aku minta ijin pulang sipat kuping menuju tempat bidan yang dikunjungi istriku. nyampe di tujuan jam 15.30 bayi cantiku udah lahir, udah di bersihkan, tinggal nangisnya. oh ya anaku lahir jam 15:15 ga sabar nunggu papanya yg cuma selisih 15 menit. syukurlah aku g perlu mendengar teriakan sakitnya istriku pas melahirkan. ku pilih Annida Sunni Kusumaningrum untuk dari sekian banyak nama untuk kuberikan ke anaku yang berarti :
Annida : Penyeru
Sunni : Sunnah
Kusumaningrum : Bunga wijaya kusuma
semoga kelak kalau kamu dewasa bisa menjadi penyeru sunah-sunah nabi Muhamad. amin